During his TEDxForbes Park talk at Manila Polo Club, martial artist and entrepreneur Chatri Sityodtong passionately tells us the story about two mighty warriors on a quest to protect a beautiful princess. Both warriors were in love with the princess but when the presence of a tiger threatened them, one warrior chose to relinquish his duty and flee the scene. The second warrior fought the tiger and, against all odds, prevailed.
Chatri breaks the audience’s collective trance by saying, “Whether you want to hear this or not, there is a hero and coward living in all of us every single day.” We all have fears but it’s what we do with the fear that makes us the second warrior, the successful one. He finishes this segment of his spiel with the question, “Are we going to be that warrior, that hero, that chooses love?”
Our speaker that afternoon definitely represents the latter character.He hasn’t lived an easy life. He came from poverty and at one point, lived on $4 a day in the United States. But through hard work, he made it out of his misfortune and became one of the lucky few to go to Harvard Business School and get his MBA. Later, he established a career on Wall Street and ran a $500 million business. But he also felt empty inside. Half-Japanese, he pondered on the concept of Ikigai, which means “your reason to live.”
“We surely can’t just be here on earth to buy a nice car, buy a house, and get a mortgage. Just have three cars to show off. Too many people buy things they don’t need to try to impress people they don’t care about. So many people in this world have a big job or title, but they hate their lives.” It was then that Sityodtong decided on putting up One Championship.
This hero had to hurdle many obstacles before leaving his past life. His own mother questioned his sanity and couldn't understand why he would leave his current life, which was more than comfortable. He firmly told her that it wasn’t his
He identified his life-purpose as martial arts-related. “Martial arts gave me thousands of hours of training; it gave me strength, courage, integrity, a fighting spirit, a desire for self-improvement, and humility.” He started training in Muay Thai as
A huge gap in the sports industry in Asia allowed Sityodtong to pursue his
In finding and chasing after your
1| Identify what you love and go after it. “It’s so easy to say “I love this,” “I love that” but the reality is, do you dare to live the life of love? Or are you going to allow fear, doubt, and insecurities get in your way? To be honest, when you look at the greatest actors in the world, the greatest businessmen, the greatest entrepreneurs, and greatest anything, you need the power of love to overcome every single obstacle.”
2| Success leaves clues. “If you want to be a multimillionaire, go find a multimillionaire. Mentors are shortcuts to success. If you can find someone to invest their knowledge and their experiences in you, then it can help you chase your dream.”
3| Surround yourself with greatness and you, too, will be great. “Surround yourself with greatness to unleash more greatness. If the five people you hang out with most are inspiring, they want to go after their dreams, and they want to do the same things you want to do in life, it’s going to fuel you with energy and you will become that.”
4| It takes just one percent a day. “This is something I learned in martial arts: Improve yourself one percent a day, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I think that’s an amazing attitude in life with work or love or whatever it is. If you can be one percent better every single day, you’ll be a whole new you in a few years.”
5| Be the hero of your own life.
“You need to be a warrior. You need to have a fighting spirit for your dreams, for your loved ones, and what’s sacred [to you]. If you crumble at the first sight of adversity or obstacles, then you don’t deserve success. You’re just talking. Anyone who’s succeeded in any field, they’re all warriors.”
This story originally appeared on Townandcountry.ph.
* Minor edits have been made by the Esquiremag.ph editors.