15 Best Sex Podcasts, No Matter Your Taste
It's 2019 and everyone has a podcast. That includes a good number of podcasts that talk about sex—240 under the "sexuality" category in iTunes alone. We checked out dozens of the funniest, smartest, smuttiest sex podcasts out there and picked 15 favorites, so you can weed out what you like. Some will make you laugh uncontrollably. Others will teach you a thing or two. The raunchiest will make the most stoic listener blush, while those with cultural significance will give you fodder for some very interesting cocktail conversation. All are good. Happy listening.
We Gotta Thing
Hosted by a married couple who has been together for a minute, We Gotta Thingdives into their experiences after adopting a swinging lifestyle into their marriage. This is an interesting listen for anyone who swings or anyone who might be curious—but don’t expect to have your hand held through your first foray into swinging. Mr. and Mrs. Jones, as the pair calls themselves, are longtime swingers, and they don't waste time on a how-to. Either way, We Gotta Thing isn’t afraid to shrug off judgment for the real conversations about swinging within the confines of a marriage. —Justin Kirkland
Not quite as much a podcast as a sexy audiobook service, Dipsea is a startup that looks to revolutionize the way we “get in touch with our erotic selves.” With a wide variety of stories you can browse based on your gender, sexuality, and situation (literally, you can choose situations ranging from “before bed” to “on the bus home”), Dipsea’s mission is to provide the erotic story that best fits your needs at any given moment. The service comes in a paid yearly subscription of around 48 bucks, which comes out to roughly $4 a month. That's not bad considering the money you might give to your favorite podcast's Patreon. And when you can have erotic stories tailored to you and your schedule, it’s a hard deal to beat. —J.K.
If you’ve ever wondered what, say, a more explicit tryst between Jon Snow and Daenerys Targaryen might look like, then Fangasm is a solid place for you to land. What started as a podcast that catered to the wildly popular world of Harry Pottererotic fan fiction (don’t act like it didn’t cross your mind in the later years), Fangasm has exploded into something bigger, with its hosts reading erotic fan fiction for some of television and film’s biggest storylines. Curious about what a more explicit telling of Jim and Pam’s relationship might have looked like on The Office? Check out Fangasm. Just don’t tell Michael Scott. You know he’d ruin it. —J.K.
It’s hard to make a "Best Of Sex Podcasts" list without including Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast. The author and sex advice columnist has been in the game since 1991, so he has extensive background in the field. But on top of nearly 30 years of sex advice experience, what makes Savage Lovecast so revolutionary is Savage’s ability to stay not only relevant, but on the cutting edge of sex advice. His takes are both wild and deeply empathetic (“Sometimes, I think adultery is better than divorce”). But one thing is certain: No one's going to shoot you straighter (or gayer, depending on the episode) than Savage. —J.K.
Turn Me On
Turn Me On is hosted by Jeremie and Bryde, who identify as a married, poly couple who don’t mind an adventure. Seriously: Bryde took a three-month trip with her other lover, and the couple billed it as an episode (jokingly) called “We’re Getting a Divorce.” They’re not afraid of anything. While other podcasts on the list might take a more traditional look at sex and marriage, Turn Me On leans in a different direction, with episodes on sex and disability, the gender binary, and plenty of talk about threesomes. It pushes the boundaries of what most people find comfortable while never straying from thoughtful and intelligent conversation. —J.K.
Sex & Other Human Activities
Sex may not be the topic you’re most comfortable discussing. Sex & Other Human Activities dares to ask why. Yeah, there’s plenty of sex talk on this podcast hosted by Marcus Parks and Jackie Zebrowski, but more importantly, the duo covers the kinds of things that can get in the way of sex—everything from pressure from those around us to full-on anxiety. While other podcasts stay focused on the physicality, Sex & Other Human Activities has a special (and usually hilarious) way of discussing what makes us tick while we’re on the path to the bedroom. —J.K
The Manwhore Podcast
"For some strange reason, my listeners seem to like knowing where my dick has been," said host Billy Procida, who had recently broken up with his girlfriend. "And right now it's covered in tears and whiskey." Procida started the podcast because, in his words, "Women would sleep with me but not date me, and I wanted to find out why." He decided to make a show out of erotic post-mortems and ex-girlfriend interviews. But Procida is more than a self-proclaimed slut; he's a thoughtful guy who chooses fresh, current topics, like what it's like to be transgender and dating, or a porn copywriter. His show is equal parts smart and bro-ey. One memorable encounter was his interview with a happy ending masseuse—conducted while getting a handjob. —Breena Kerr
In the words of producers Phoebe Wang and Mitra Kaboli, The Heart makes documentaries "with immersive performances and sound design that makes you feel like you've walked into a magic dream world." And each episode of this gorgeously made show does sound like art. More than that, the entirely sincere podcast plants you firmly in someone else's life, guided by diverse voices; all the staff members are queer, women of color, or both. The award-winning piece "Mariya" follows a Pakistani woman exploring her sexuality in the wake of genital mutilation. "Love, Harry" is about what happens when you fall in love with your best friend. According to show producers, the podcast is primarily recorded in host Kaitlin Prest's soundproofed bedroom closet. Maybe that's where the show gets its homey feel. —B.K.
Sex Talk with My Mom
"The most common thing I hear is, 'I can't believe you're doing this with your mom,'" co-host Cam Poter said. The podcast was born when Cam, a comic, realized that his best jokes were about his mom and the sex advice YouTube show she had started. So mother and son joined forces, first to help Cam with his dating life, then to help listeners. A few years later, it isn't any less uncomfortable. "The other day a phone sex operator had an orgasm on the phone with us over Skype," Cam said. "It was very awkward." Despite the discomfort, the tone remains honest and kind. It's clear that Cam can't bullshit his mom, even with the most X-rated topics. —B.K.
"People call us The Moth for pervs," host Dixie De La Tour, a self-proclaimed sexual folklorist, said. Captured from live performances on the West Coast, these true sex stories from "regular" people are, in turns, side-achingly funny, illuminating, and touching. Entire episodes cover themes like "Bottoms Up!," "Cuckolds R Us," and "Leather Celebration." They are also just damn good stories; La Tour has been hosting the show for more than 10 years, and she's a pro. "I want every single person in the audience to relate to something in each story," De La Tour said. "These are stories that don't fade out like the movies." —B.K.
Sex with Strangers
Wanderlusty in the best way, Sex with Strangers is a travel podcast for the sex and sociology inclined. More than the others, this show explores a shared human experience through various cultural lenses. Episodes follow host Chris Sowa around the world while he looks into geo-specific and universal sexual mores. In Episode One, he travels to Tokyo and scours the city for its elusive used underwear vending machines. Then he heads out to Laramie, Wyoming, to interview a former minister who's using the gay sex app Grindr, and Mumbai, India, to talk with a trans woman and sex worker named Jasmine. More sex-centered globe trotting follows. —B.K.
"We have a built-in psychology for when we sense someone is being authentic and telling the truth … They're opening up, and so we open up," host Kevin Allison once said in an interview. This podcast is all about those stories—the ones that feel risky, vulnerable, and scary to tell—and each has the quality of a curated fireside tale. In the "Getting to Know You" episode, for instance, comedian and writer Jillian Richardson recounts how joining FetLife (a social network for BDSM and kink) and taking a professional domming class helped her overcome her self-consciousness around men. Heartfelt and hilarious, this is one is a treasure for road trips. —B.K.
"I'm making the podcast that I wish I had when I was 15," said host Chris Duce, who was brought up Mormon. If you grew up religious and found yourself constantly questioning dogmatic rules and inexplicable mores about sex, this show provides some catharsis. Duce reflects on growing up on a weird mix of Mormon teachings—i.e. being gay is a mental illness, premarital sex is forbidden, and it's a sin to give blowjobs ever—while secretly listening to Loveline at night. Duce also expanded his range and began interviewing guests who grew up in other strictly religious environments. It's rare for a podcast to combine sexuality with religion. This one does it well. —B.K.
Guys We Fucked
Brash, bold, and unapologetic, comedians Krystyna Hutchinson and Corinne Fisher use this podcast to interview guys they've slept with and riff off one another about sex. In one episode, for instance, the duo tackled a question that has long plagued women: "Can I Smoke Blunts With My Pussy?" Unlike other long-running weekly podcasts, the podcast doesn't waste time on mindless news-of-the-day chatter. It's fresh, geared to make you smarter, or make you laugh, or both. If you've ever wished for boisterous, rollicking friends to hang out with every week, this is your show. —B.K.
My Dad Wrote a Porno
Bad porn, great British accents, and one man's fearless descent into his father's sexual fantasies are all encapsulated in My Dad Wrote a Porno. When host Jamie Morton learned that his dad had ventured into the world of self-published erotica, he decided to make a podcast devoted to dissecting it, in all its terrible glory. Although listening to one episode of this podcast might be enough—the parent-child dynamic is on the verge of being over-done—it's humor makes it one of the greats. Side-cramping laughter guaranteed. —B.K.
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