17 Best Sex Toys for Men
Let's say it together: Everyone likes pleasure. The one thing men often forget though is that pleasure can come (pun intended) in a lot of different ways. There's a whole world out there of gadgets and devices that take whatever sexual habits you've fallen into and turn them on their heads. We are moving ever closer to a sex-positive society, so why not fully embrace it? These are the best male sex toys that can help enhance your sex life, no matter who, how many, or how few are participating in it with you. Try one, of a few, out.
A Prostate Massager
Nexus Revo Slim
If you (or you and your partner) are interested in prostate and perineum stimulation, this remote-controlled prostate massager from Nexus with six modes can really change the game. Is it for everyone? No. But it adds a layer of pleasure that is hard to recreate otherwise.
A Budget-Friendly Prostate Massager
For a less expensive prostate option, Phanxy makes a simple massager with nine speeds.
A Penis Ring Set
Paloqueth Cock Rings
Play mix-and-match with this set of four different silicone rings. They don't vibrate, but sometimes sensation isn't derived from fancy bells and whistles.
A Couples Massager
We-Vibe makes one of the best couples sex toys on the market. The smaller end inserts into the vagina and the larger end lays of the clitoris, ensuring good vibrations for everyone during sex.
An Anal Plug
B Vibe Rimming Plug Petite
If you're interested in trying a butt plug, B Vibe's version is smaller—a.k.a good for beginners—with a vibrating tip.
A Sextech Console
Lelo F1s Developer's Kit
Lelo has one of the most high-tech masturbation machines on a market. The F1 sends sonic waves through your penis for an elevated experience, with multiple settings to cater to your very specific whims. Consider treating yourself.
A Penis Pump
Paloqueth Penis Vacuum Pump
To fully prep for a sexual encounter, try an automated pump that uses suction to bring more blood to the penis.
A Masturbation Sleeve
Hot Octopuss Pulse III
This sleeve pulses and oscillates to upgrade male masturbation. In fact, it's been dubbed the "world's first guybrator."
Tenga Easy Beat Egg
Sometimes good things come in small packages. The Tenga masturbation egg has an elastic inside that fits over any size and comes pre-lubricated. This pack includes various textures for an added level of pleasure, from silky lining to wavy.
A Vibrating Cock Ring
Lovehoney Wild Thing
This 10-function penis ring is designed to vibrate, stimulating the penis while simultaneously stimulating your partner's clitoris or perineum.
A Fleshlight Fleshlight
Stamina Trainer Pack
Fleshlight is probably the most well-known of any male sex toy brand. At this point, if you want to be creative, you can even design a Fleshlight to a very specific liking. But if you're just starting out, this trainer pack is the safest way to go.
Lelo Luna Beads
This is a dealer's choice. Lelo's beads are designed to vibrate, and you can use them in numerous ways. If placed inside a vagina, the vibrations are shared during intercourse. There's also the anal option for a different kind of pleasure.
A Vibrating Head Teaser
XR Brands Vibrating Head Teaser
For the more adventurous, this mechanism sends vibrations through the head of your penis. With the remote control, you can do it to yourself, or leave the intensity of teasing up to a partner to decide for a bit of submissive stimulation.
A Penis Extender
Mega 3 Inch Extension
Not all penises are created equal, and that's okay! Ideally, your relationship with someone does not depend on the size of your penis. But if you need a boost, this penis extension has you literally covered so that you and your partner can enjoy the moment.
A Blowjob Stroker
BlowYo Sensation Swirl
This device is for the orally inclined. Designed to feel like an actual mouth, you can use it on yourself. But it's also great for couples where one of you loves receiving, but giving is not particularly the other's favorite thing to do.
Yes Organic WB Lubricant
If you're using the same lubricant for everything you're doing, then you're definitely doing it wrong. When it comes to toys, try a lubricant that's water based, like Yes's organic option. Silicon-based lubes break down silicon toys, literally disintegrating them. That isn't great for your toys, or whatever else that residue might be rubbing off in/on/etc.
Boy Butter Warming Formula Single Use Packet
And if you're truly riding solo out there, then try Boy Butter lube, which has some serious lasting power. This variation comes in a single pack and creates a warming sensation. It is not for using with a toy or a condom though, so keep that in mind.
This story originally appeared on Esquire.com.
* Minor edits have been made by the Esquiremag.ph editors.