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Donny Pangilinan: 'You Need to Find Value in Your Work. It's Not About Saying Yes to Everything'

By Maan D'asis Pamaran
Nov 15, 2023
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Every year, Esquire Philippines' Man at His Best honors extraordinary Filipinos who are reshaping society. These are the men and women who are raising the bar for Filipino creatives, athletes, public servants, and professionals.

This year, we're celebrating eight mavericks and living legends in film, music, business, politics, and the arts. From National Artists Ricky Lee and Kidlat Tahimik to Mayor Joy Belmonte and tycoon Ramon Ang, we present the 2023 honorees who exemplify what it means to be a Man at His Best.

Meet Esquire's Entertainer of the Year, Donny Pangilinan



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Children of popular personalities often have the pressure of performing at the level of their parents' success, but primetime heartthrob Donny Pangilinan takes it all in stride. His upright upbringing was a huge factor in how his life is playing out, as one would expect from having actress and former parenting magazine editor Maricel Laxa-Pangilinan and motivational speaker Anthony Pangilinan as parents. He credits his parents who shaped, influenced, and motivated him to place his feet firmly planted on the ground despite his showbiz success. 

The 25-year-old describes both his childhood and current situation as a "roller-coaster ride."

"I grew up with four siblings and our age gaps were really close to each other, so we did everything together," he says. "Solana came 10 years later as a surprise for the family. I sometimes forget that ate Ella is older than me because she also treats me like a kuya. Maybe it's because I'm very protective. I always make sure they're okay."

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Pangilinan shares that what he calls their "sibling day."

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"We actually set aside a day or a time when everyone is free. We just did that recently, and we all played golf. We'd have dinner out as family. We love traveling as a family. Time is one of the most valuable things you can have. So sometimes because of work, I miss that free time that I used to have to with my family, my friends, and being home more. So every moment that I get that I could go out, grab a drink or go to the supermarket or something, I really cherish them."

The household is also very normal, he reveals. "Sa bahay, wala namang artista-artista doon. We're like any other family that also fights and we have miscommunication and stuff, but at the end of the day, mahal namin ang isa't-isa at kumpleto kami." 

Having good role models for a healthy relationship likewise helps with his own approach to matters of the heart. "They do serve as an inspiration, for sure, because the couple I would want to be or aspire to be like is them. I would want to end up with someone who also has the same values as my mom. Seeing the way they treat each other, parang mas nai-inspire ako sa kanila. And I know the road has not been easy; we've all gone through so many things but at the end of the day, they chose each other, and that's the most important thing. Their foundation is very secure. They serve as an inspiration, not just to me but to all my siblings, and I'm very grateful for that."

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The makings of a star

Pangilinan remembers doing commercials with his mom as a family. "It was fun, but I don't think I really understood what we were doing," he says. "It wasn't until around high school that it really became of interest to me. I guess more of my motivation or my mindset was just to try it out, see how things go, but the normal route would have been to study abroad or something like that, like my siblings."

His mother, who won one FAMAS Award, one Gawad Urian Award, and one Star Award for her supporting roles in Iisa Pa Lamang and Minsan Lamang Magmahal, actually discouraged him from pursuing acting.

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"My parents, at the start, really didn't want me to do it, especially my mom," Pangilinan says. "She said, 'Huwag ka na pumasok ng showbiz. Alam ko kung paano diyan. Naranasan ko na rin iyon.' Eventually they said, 'if you really want to do it, then you have to show us that you really want to do it'. I took workshops with Star Magic and I really did what I could do to learn as much as I can about the industry."

The star of the top-rating ABS-CBN TV series Can't Buy Me Love says he had another obstacle to hurdle. "I was really shy. I was an introvert, and I still am at times. I don't think mawawala naman yun. My mom and I are very similar. I'm like her photocopy na guy version and she's also introverted. I think we just learned to slowly also become extroverts when we need to be, but there are times, when we just want to be by ourselves. I guess that is ironic being in showbiz because you're always around people. But I learned to love it, too I guess. Opportunities just kept coming in."

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While his mom has built a career as a bankable actress in her heyday, he is not allowed to watch her films. "Sabi niya, 'Donny, bawal kayo manood ng movies ko.' Pero one day, feeling ko gusto ko manood. Sabi niya kasi, "Okay na iyon. Past ko na iyon. Wag niyo na panoorin. So what I do for now is watch her current projects." 

It was their prodding that put her back on cam. "We were telling her, she has to come back, but she always said she needed to spend time with us. I told her, 'We're already old enough. You're free to do what you love doing and what you're good at.' She's enjoying it. She tells us her stories and it looks like she's in a good place. I watch her scenes and she is very genuine when she acts. My mom really loves her craft and I think she's one of the inspirations I have in terms of loving my craft and looking at ways at which I can improve."

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In turn, his mother Maricel watches her son's teleserye, and is absolutely hooked. "She literally just texted me now kasi yung episode namin ngayon may parang kidnapping. Sabi niya, "Donny, sino ba yung kidnapper? Gusto ko na malaman kung sino. Sabihin mo na," he chuckles.

From his father who is a popular motivational speaker and author, he gets valuable words of advice. "I would watch his talks as a kid and even help to sell his books. I would assist him and see the reactions of his attendees. He's really good at getting the attention of a lot of people, really speaking hindi lang for the mind but also to the heart. A lot of the advice he gives me probably revolves around staying true to yourself, sticking with your purpose, always remember that there's always going to be room for improvement and don't forget to give back. He'd randomly text me quotes or Bible verses and stuff that would cheer me up for the day. Sobrang na-appreciate ko yun mga ganung bagay."

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In character

One would ordinarily find it hard to believe that a clean-cut guy with his comfortable family background could effectively portray a street-smart Manila toughie, but Donny does it effectively in his role as Bingo for Can't Buy Me Love. For this, he spent time immersed in the streets of Binondo, as a casual observer of how people live and work in the area. 

"We really went around incognito," he says. "We went people-watching and we would just observe. Direk Mae (Cruz-Alviar) would point things out to me such as how they would carry goods or how they would talk to each other. Other cast members like Kuya Ketchup (Eusebio) would give me constructive criticism or answer questions like how to pronounce some words. So it's more of like a group effort—how I can get into character, but I also do my own research. I tell the ones around me to hold me accountable, like if I have something that I can improve on, just to let me know."

The young actor is mindful of the trust given to him and reciprocates accordingly. "I'm just so happy that I get to work with amazing people, and that there's so much trust being given to us. For this, the least we can do is show up with our hard work and do our best to grow and excel."

It helps to have a supportive acting partner in the person of Belle Mariano, the other half of the DonBelle loveteam. 

"Siyempre malaking tulong," he says about his onscreen romantic partner. "Malaking bagay yung sobrang supportive kayo sa isa't-isa. Sobrang kailangan namin. I don't think I'll be able to do this series if I didn't have someone as supportive as her alongside me and someone who's willing to also grow and to show even more to her acting side than what we've already seen. It's been very fun. I think we've both helped each other a lot and we will continue to do so. The story of Bingo and Caroline is still developing, so it's nice to see how their dynamics will be when they start getting comfortable with each other and then all these questions will be brought up again. All of the things that can happen in the show na hindi pa natin alam, it's very exciting lang."

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Pangilinan also admits to being careful with choosing the roles that he plays. "I think for the most part, I really make sure that I like the story. That I like the script. We've even said no to many before kasi hindi aligned sa values ko. So it's not just about saying yes to everything. You also need to know what value you can gain from it, what value the audience can gain and how can it be a win-win. I look for roles that would really stretch me and push me. I do believe that you have to make sure when you step foot on the set, you fully believe in the project."

When pressed for the names of actors he admires, he mentions Leonardo DiCaprio and Miles Teller for their ability to own their characters. With more Filipinos trying their luck in Hollywood, he says he dreams of working with Steven Spielberg. "Another dream that I have is hopefully one day, we can come up with a locally produced film that will be really known worldwide. I'm sure, we'll reach that because the movies that we see in the Philippines keeps getting better and better. Ang daming potential talaga. And I really believe that we could still take it further and further."  

As Esquire Philippines' Entertainer of the Year, Pangilinan shares his definition of quality entertainment. "It is content that has really been thought out. It's something that is not just taken lightly but it has an agenda to really showcase something that hasn't been shown before. Quality entertainment would also get the audience really at the edge of their seats and wanting more of it. Watching something or being a part of something, and at the end, they want more. I think, we're striving more and more, as a country, to reach that. And hopefully, the goal is to really branch out to showing more of our films internationally and being recognized abroad."

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Faith and love for country

Pangilinan is a staunch believer in the potential of the Philippines, having been active in the last national elections. He was active in the campaign during the last national elections, supporting his uncle, Francis "Kiko" Pangilinan, who ran for Vice President.

 "I learned so much from the campaign," he says. "That's probably something I would forever be proud of. It's just so nice to all go through something together, going through what you believe in with other people, like fighting for your own country. That's something you can't buy. The rallies were very different from things like the malls shows we would do. Kasi yung nasa mall show ka, tapos nakikita mo yung crowd sumisigaw sila para sa iyo…iba rin yun pumunta ka sa rally but they're all screaming for the country, for our future. So, it's very different, and very fulfilling."

It has also opened his eyes to the beauty of the country. "The places we went to were not the usual tourist spots. We went to the remote barangays and we talked to many different people, tao sa tao. You really get a glimpse of life in those places."


Everyday people experience everyday challenges, and he advises Filipinos to keep the faith. "Minsan yun na nga lang yun kaya mong i-cling on to. Kasi lahat ng bagay sa mundo, nagfa-fade, nagbabago. Pero yung faith mo yung hindi. I think, that's the only thing that is constant; that there's always going to be Someone looking after you at the end of the day. Purpose really plays a big role in all of this.

"Like with me, when I'm having a really bad day again, you remember that there is also a God who is in control of your story, and you just have to trust, and you have to believe and have faith that things are going to go according to plan," he adds. "There's always going to be something to look forward to. Maybe not now, at this specific moment. But it's all happening for a reason, and you just have to believe."

As part of this year's list of Esquire's Man at His Best honorees, he has a straightforward description of a man who is at his best. "He is a man who is true to himself, and who is genuine and trustworthy. It's as simple as that."


Photos: Gee Plamenco Jr.
Styling: John Lozano
Grooming: Jam Pareño
Editor-in-Chief: Paul John Caña

Production: Paolo Chua
Creative Direction: Igi Talao
Design Direction: Igi Talao
Location: Discovery Primea

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